Coaching, advice, trust-dancing facilitation
If you want my advice, coaching, or guidance, you can book me by the hour.
You’re welcome to book me for any purpose you think will be worthwhile.
As inspiration, I’ve listed below some ways that my attention might serve you.
Choose a price that fits your circumstances:
I help people in a wide range of ways:
- Trust-dancing facilitation, which is my lens on what some people might call conflict mediation. I can work with you 1-on-1 to help you orient to a situation with some distrust or betrayal, or I can work live with a pair or group to notice where the collective trust-dance is getting stuck by trying to skip steps. This is relevant to communities, company dynamics, families, friends, and spiritual teacher-student relationships.
- Mating-dance consulting. This is a specific application of trust-dancing to the process of falling in love. The basic premise is that there’s a process you can go through that, if it succeeds, will cause someone to feel like a life partner, but if your commitment exceeds where you are in the process, then things will feel off. I can help you sort out muddles there (again, this can be 1-on-1 or working with both of you).
- Internal Trust-Dancing, a partswork technique I created based on my non-naive trust-dance framework. It’s especially meta and can be useful if you’ve developed resistance to other partswork techniques because some parts of you have been using them to control other parts of you.
- Bio-Emotive or Coherence work, neither of which I’m certified in but both of which I have experience in facilitating and feel I understand their core magic.
- Workflow or lifestyle design. For instance, helping you visualize your ideal day and set up systems to make those kinds of days happen more readily.
- Interface design feedback, whether at early stages (metaphor design) or if you’ve built a prototype and you want me to play with it and use my perspective-taking skills to ask my hallmark cheeky question: “but what if it were good tho?“
- Deepening insights based on my writing or videos. If something I’ve said or written has been transformative for you, and you feel it could go further, talk to me directly and we’ll explore how it applies to your situation and how you can integrate it with everything else you know.
- “How do I plug into the global superorganism?” If you’ve read my 100× vision or otherwise been inspired by my thinking on these topics, we can explore how your magic might manifest the meta-protocol…