All of my posts, sorted by date
I wasn’t sure exactly how to generate these archives, and what I’ve ended up with are two totally independent lists of posts by date and posts by title. The posts by title are, however, sorted by date, so on a wide enough screen they line up perfectly… until sometime in 2011, when I had multiple posts on the same day.
- August 5, 2024
- May 31, 2024
- May 4, 2024
- April 30, 2024
- April 21, 2024
- March 10, 2024
- February 21, 2024
- February 19, 2024
- January 9, 2024
- January 8, 2024
- January 5, 2024
- January 4, 2024
- December 24, 2023
- December 13, 2023
- December 10, 2023
- December 6, 2023
- November 18, 2023
- October 18, 2023
- August 25, 2023
- July 21, 2023
- July 14, 2023
- June 30, 2023
- June 15, 2023
- May 13, 2023
- May 2, 2023
- March 31, 2023
- February 7, 2023
- January 27, 2023
- December 16, 2022
- December 12, 2022
- December 5, 2022
- November 27, 2022
- November 21, 2022
- November 10, 2022
- October 28, 2022
- October 15, 2022
- September 8, 2022
- August 18, 2022
- August 5, 2022
- June 17, 2022
- June 5, 2022
- May 25, 2022
- May 18, 2022
- May 5, 2022
- February 28, 2022
- January 29, 2022
- December 30, 2021
- November 30, 2021
- November 27, 2021
- November 25, 2021
- November 11, 2021
- November 6, 2021
- November 1, 2021
- October 12, 2021
- October 4, 2021
- September 27, 2021
- September 5, 2021
- August 28, 2021
- July 29, 2021
- July 14, 2021
- July 11, 2021
- June 29, 2021
- June 20, 2021
- April 18, 2021
- March 3, 2021
- February 17, 2021
- January 6, 2021
- December 17, 2020
- November 10, 2020
- October 17, 2020
- October 7, 2020
- January 10, 2020
- December 24, 2019
- October 25, 2019
- January 31, 2019
- January 10, 2019
- February 15, 2018
- January 31, 2018
- January 23, 2018
- January 7, 2018
- December 18, 2017
- December 8, 2017
- November 28, 2017
- November 18, 2017
- November 8, 2017
- September 30, 2017
- September 19, 2017
- July 28, 2017
- July 8, 2017
- June 28, 2017
- April 23, 2017
- April 15, 2017
- January 16, 2017
- December 8, 2016
- October 6, 2016
- September 20, 2016
- September 5, 2016
- August 27, 2016
- August 17, 2016
- August 5, 2016
- July 27, 2016
- July 16, 2016
- July 8, 2016
- June 19, 2016
- June 4, 2016
- May 18, 2016
- May 4, 2016
- April 26, 2016
- April 9, 2016
- March 31, 2016
- February 27, 2016
- February 19, 2016
- February 7, 2016
- January 28, 2016
- January 16, 2016
- January 9, 2016
- December 19, 2015
- December 15, 2015
- December 10, 2015
- December 8, 2015
- November 28, 2015
- November 24, 2015
- November 21, 2015
- November 15, 2015
- November 8, 2015
- November 1, 2015
- October 24, 2015
- October 12, 2015
- October 5, 2015
- September 28, 2015
- August 21, 2015
- August 14, 2015
- August 8, 2015
- July 25, 2015
- July 17, 2015
- July 14, 2015
- July 1, 2015
- June 18, 2015
- June 12, 2015
- June 2, 2015
- May 23, 2015
- May 15, 2015
- April 22, 2015
- April 6, 2015
- March 27, 2015
- March 17, 2015
- February 22, 2015
- February 14, 2015
- January 24, 2015
- January 16, 2015
- January 3, 2015
- December 26, 2014
- December 15, 2014
- December 7, 2014
- November 30, 2014
- November 17, 2014
- November 8, 2014
- October 27, 2014
- October 7, 2014
- September 20, 2014
- September 9, 2014
- August 15, 2014
- August 2, 2014
- July 24, 2014
- July 15, 2014
- July 3, 2014
- June 28, 2014
- June 16, 2014
- May 30, 2014
- May 24, 2014
- May 16, 2014
- May 11, 2014
- April 29, 2014
- April 24, 2014
- April 18, 2014
- April 15, 2014
- January 26, 2014
- December 31, 2013
- December 21, 2013
- December 7, 2013
- November 26, 2013
- November 7, 2013
- October 22, 2013
- October 9, 2013
- October 2, 2013
- September 20, 2013
- September 12, 2013
- August 27, 2013
- August 22, 2013
- August 1, 2013
- July 12, 2013
- June 25, 2013
- June 15, 2013
- May 20, 2013
- April 12, 2013
- March 26, 2013
- March 15, 2013
- February 28, 2013
- February 10, 2013
- February 1, 2013
- January 7, 2013
- December 31, 2012
- November 18, 2012
- October 27, 2012
- August 30, 2012
- July 11, 2012
- May 29, 2012
- May 17, 2012
- April 12, 2012
- April 10, 2012
- April 1, 2012
- February 22, 2012
- February 12, 2012
- January 28, 2012
- December 27, 2011
- December 13, 2011
- November 10, 2011
- November 9, 2011
- October 16, 2011
- October 8, 2011
- October 6, 2011
- September 26, 2011
- September 3, 2011
- August 7, 2011
- August 1, 2011
- July 28, 2011
- July 24, 2011
- July 12, 2011
- July 11, 2011
- July 9, 2011
- July 7, 2011
- July 6, 2011
- July 3, 2011
- July 2, 2011
- July 1, 2011
- June 30, 2011
- June 29, 2011
- June 28, 2011
- June 27, 2011
- Bootstrapping Meta-Trust
- The Parable of the Canoe 🛶
- 7 takes on falling sanely in love
- The Mating Dance: an online course on falling sanely in love
- The secret to co-gnosis
- Releasing myself from a confused self-contradictory commitment
- 3 Loops of Expressing Feelings
- 2023: Allowing Diligence
- Merely getting everybody in touch with their own knowing isn’t enough
- The eyes-open student: “I can see things my teacher can’t acknowledge”
- Guru dynamics: “I can show you how to trust yourself”
- Reality distortion: “I can tell, but you can’t”
- I know what Knowing isn’t
- The primacy of knowing-for-oneself
- Oppressive cultures: you don’t get to know what you know
- How did you forget to tell for yourself?
- “I can tell for myself”
- Talking about myself
- “Whose job is this?”
- The superegos have gone crazy
- dropping balms
- Evolution of Consciousness one-pager
- Malcolm, explain the Non-Naive Trust Dance right fucking now, in one breath, standing on one foot
- alpha-test my template: How To Gently Blindly Touch the Elephant In the Room Together
- confronting & forgiving the people who instilled fear in my heart
- art is choosing what to breathe life into
- Partswork doesn’t require reifying or naming parts
- 2022: Deepening in a Different Direction
- The choice to open, the choice to allow
- Mindset choice 2: expanding awareness
- Coercion in terms of scarcity & perceptual control
- Exploring & integrating my resistances to growing Intend
- Exploring non-coercive marketing for my intentionality app business
- Respect people by letting them make their own mistakes
- Open Letter to David Sauvage re Collective Decision-Making
- Open letter: Convening an Ontario meta-protocol jam
- How and why I take a weekly “day off”
- Allowing allowing
- NNTD Q&A
- What is collective consciousness and why does it matter?
- The Courage To Leave (original song)
- An illustration of the adjacent-possible meta-team vision
- Malcolm’s 100× vision (3 layers)
- co-what-now: aiming for flow & sovereignty on the largest scale presently possible
- Towardsness & Awayness Motivation are fundamentally asymmetric
- Announcing some other media
- 2021: Catching my Breath
- The next step for Twitter: Multi-Quote-Tweet
- The meta-protocol for human trust-building
- What are you knot-doing?
- Internal Trust Dancing case study 3: easy but impossible; welcoming suspicion
- “Mindset choice” is a confusion
- thinking that rejects other thinking
- Why you can’t beat your shadow in a fight
- Fractal Home
- Non-Naive Trust Dance—why the name?
- NNTD pith instructions exploration
- Internal Trust Dancing case study 2: scheduling & cancelling dates
- Internal Trust Dancing case study 1: EA & relaxation
- Fractal Pomodoros
- How I run Online Workshops
- Dream Mashups
- Work With Me – new site page
- Runway lengthens if you’re making money
- Letter to my younger self, who has just been sent to his room
- Lecturing & Learning: Emotional Coherence Case Study
- 2020: Free to Dance
- Complice: Beyond Getting Things Done
- A Collaborative Self-Energizing Meta-Team Vision
- Relationship Panarchy
- Wtf is a deadline? Showtime, missing the bus, time walls, check-ins, &+
- 2019 Yearly Review: Divided Brain Reconciled by Meaningful Sobbing
- “Systems vs Goals” is silly. Have both!
- The Challenge of Partial Control
- Reviewing the choices I made in 2018
- Nothing is Behind
- Laughter and Dominance: 5-year reflection on againstness training
- 12017 Yearly Review
- Dispel your justification-monkey with a “HWA!”
- To trust or not to trust is NOT the question
- Make an appointment with your saner self
- Understanding understanding
- Transcending Regrets, Problems, and Mistakes
- Building self-trust with Self-Referential Motivation
- Captain’s Log: ultra-simple tech for self-reflection
- The Unreserved YES
- The Third Kind of Expectation
- On “Being Grateful for the Opportunity to Train”
- Transcending Blame while Hopping Mountains Together
- Towards being purpose-driven without fighting myself
- Beyond “Giving Feedback”: Co-Attending & Attunement
- Acts of Speech and States of Mind
- 12016: A Year of Co-Responsibility
- How I Learned to Stop Hurrying and Fall In Love (with a project)
- Taking myself seriously
- New site page: Experiments
- Selling to friends (and telling crushes you like them)
- Deconstruction of “Criticism”
- Over-empathizing with non-existent suffering
- Use Reference Incidents to Clarify Communication of Experience
- The Process Lens
- 5 Things I’ve Learned from Extensive Couchsurfing
- Common-knowledge self-commitments for changing patterns of thought
- Boggling at being a computational creature made of stuff
- You flow downhill (and you can sculpt the hill)
- Honing mode and Jamming mode (in conversation)
- Expectations: Entitlements & Anticipations
- Introducing the Cast (of Malcolm Ocean)
- Polyphasic? No, but stably and happily biphasic.
- A ritual to upgrade my Face
- Don’t get distracted and crash
- “The sparkly pink purple ball thing”
- Debating the implications (not the facts)
- CFAR 3 year retrospective
- Delegating to future-you can be a suggestion, not a command
- 2015: A Year of Freedom
- Needles you can’t move with your hand
- Interfacing at the Speed of Thought
- Then I Wake Up (a short story)
- Why I blog
- Building a model of Why I Don’t Like Teasing (Usually)
- A laptop employed as a nightlight
- Wanting to escape the present
- Proactively learning to think *about* what I think with
- Shoals: what do you know you don’t want?
- Just Do A Thing (that nobody’s expecting you to do)
- Causal Explanations vs Normative Explanations
- The patterns that we’re made of
- “What’s it like to be you?”
- Ultimatums in the Territory
- The Time I Caught Myself Whistling
- Levels of dis-identification with your thoughts
- Not Your Daddy’s Bystander Effect
- Lost & Found (a song I wrote)
- The Two-Channels Model for Mindset Change
- The sticky note that wasn’t passive-aggressive
- Unselfconsciousness training (MFT III)
- Unlearning shoddy thinking
- Reveal Culture
- Pattern-botching: when you forget you understand
- Abstracting from Experience
- Go more meta by developing an immunity to iocaine powder
- When you can’t find the edge of the frame
- Deciding to make things happen
- Nuanced Invitations in Tell Culture
- Why giving humans bug reports is easier than giving feature suggestions
- Four easy ways to create value for your friends
- The Iron Ring and Heroic Responsibility
- Announcing the Effectivity Habits Project
- Structures of accountability
- 2014: An Objective Year
- Creating contexts for desire cultivation
- 9 Things I Relearned From Hugging 70 strangers in airports (in one day)
- Project Partners: make things. with people.
- Dot Objects: Don’t Judge a [____] by its [____]
- Cycles of Breath and Feedback
- Why do you ask?
- Subject-Object Notation: a case study on defensiveness and curiosity
- Growing a Garden with a Broken Bodum
- Eating Frogs or Playing Vicious Rock-Paper-Scissors
- Nonsexual touch: TSA patdowns and the Human Carcass Wash
- Getting over Feeling Entitled to Good Design
- Typical Minds and Typical Faces
- Two Ways to Make Your Language More Conducive to Growth Mindset
- The 40-Hour Work Weekend
- How I’m reading 2× as much as last year with a smaller goal
- Not with a bang, but with a yawn.
- On Feeling Uncomfortable as Information
- Habit Models: Routines vs Reflexes
- What I Learned From 20 Weeks of Habit Hacking
- Cozy (and CoZE) Cuddle Parties: a Q&A
- Self-Authorship: writing your own story
- How to eliminate words from your idiolect
- Trust-powered feedback loops
- Mindfulness Field Training 2: Motivation
- Mindfulness Field Training
- Perspective-taking
- 2013: A Year of Connection
- Apologizing and Forgiving
- Complice: My goal-progress-tracking business, 75 days
- Communication: Trust and Crocker’s Rules
- The scientifically-validated way to align urges and goals: Implementation Intentions
- What People Think of You
- I’m Starting a Business: Planning and Achieving Goals
- This Post May Contain Traces of Gluten
- Everything You Want
- Four valuable types of feedback
- Looking for Beggars: A Perspective Shift
- So You Want To Sleep Polyphasically
- Subjective Objectivity
- Accepting my present chocolate addiction
- On Sleep and Sticktoitiveness
- Flow vs Deliberate Practice
- YES! I noticed!
- Polyphasic Sleep 2: Everyman (Day 11)
- 12 Thoughts on Age, Growing Up and Birthdays
- My Songwriting is On Fire
- On the Unsuitableness of “IF” and the Intricacies of “BUT”
- Winning at Arguments by Enlarging your PNS
- The Meta-Application of Rationality
- Introducing FileKicker 3: New features and new possibilities
- 2012: A Year of Projects
- My first album: The Mind I’m Lost Inside
- The Mind I’m Lost Inside: I’m releasing an album in 3 weeks.
- What if you do everything perfectly, and you still fail?
- Delicious Cognitive Dissonance
- Dear Amazon
- Laughing for no reason
- How did you spend the last hour?
- I want to have reflection time.
- “I Don’t Watch” – The challenge to mean what I say.
- 40 Days Unsweetened
- Frontal lobe or midbrain? How to take control.
- The Emotional Intelligence of a Smartphone
- A Real Man
- FileKicker 2: Return of the File!
- First hackings with Arduino: Text on LEDs
- Multitrack song!
- Judge books by their covers
- How I crossed “duvet” off my To-Get List without buying a duvet
- What Steve Jobs means to me
- A Productive Day
- Two Original Songs on a Piano
- Priorities: It’s not what you do, but what you don’t do. (Music and Thoughts)
- FileKicker – My First Published Android App
- Three Final Haikus & A New Challenge
- Song and Poems Galore!
- A Little Music and Reflections on Achieving Goals
- Shadow [#3 – Summer of Song 2011]
- “Self-Referentially” – A Double-Dactyl Poem
- Haiku on Lucid Dreaming
- If It Didn’t Rhyme (A Poem in Couplets)
- How To Write A Sonnet
- Self-referential Haikus
- Poems from Previous Days
- Uberman Day 6 Conclusion
- Uberman Days 4-5 Roller Coaster
- How to Add Daily Awesome to your Life in 2 Easy Steps.
- 30 Day Poem/Song Challenge Day 1
- Uberman Day 3 Trials
- Uberman Day 2
- Uberman Day 1 Finished
- Uberman Day 1 – Morning
- Uberman Day Zero
- Hello world!
